How do we create what we want?

How do we create what we don’t want?

The answer to both those questions is: Everything that exists was created with a thought.

The wikipedia definition of self- fulfilling prophecy is as follows.

"The self-fulfilling prophecy is, in the beginning, a false definition of the situation evoking a new behaviour which makes the original false conception come 'true' This specious validity of the self-fulfilling prophecy perpetuates a reign of error. For the prophet will cite the actual course of events as proof that he was right from the very beginning

It is the EGO that always wants to be right.

We can spend our lifetime wondering why we have our particular lot in life, much of which " I never asked for " ( yes you did ). Or we can get right down to it and sort it out by listening to our thoughts and the words we are actually speaking and thinking. The Universe is very literal in it’s interpretation of your thoughts and expressions. " I didn’t mean it that way " isn’t recognised by the force that exists and manifests what you project.

What you state, is a statement of fact that creates your reality that your are responsible for creating regardless of the fact that the result was not what you intended.

Whatever you are thinking about, wondering about, pondering on, wishing for, or remembering you are giving energy to and the Universe is right there to back you up with the same quality if not the exact circumstance you project.

Repetition, just like practice of anything ( piano, ) reinforces, reaffirms, re instills that practice, ( belief , right or wrong way of doing ) till it manifests, right or wrong, good or bad, healthy or unhealthy.

My fascination with the subject began during a period when I was physically and emotionally unbalanced and actually experienced and came through what I was later to find out was a " Dark night of the Soul " which lasted far more than a night and a horrible experience to go through but the bright side on the other side was absolutely brilliant, where I saw life like I had never seen it in years. I think the essence of the DNS itself was perpetuated from an asking with great intent and desire to change the circumstances in my life at the time and in order to do that pain and suffering had to be involved. there can not be light without there first being darkness. There certainly was no asking for a painless change for the better in my life, just a way to change the source of my unhappiness at the time.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_Night_of_the_Soul

Around that time priar to my DNS, I would continually forget my keys. I would walk out of the house day after day without my keys. The same with my wallet ( my identity ) and there were definitely conflicts with my identity. My response each time, ( the reaffirming thought ) was " I keep forgetting my wallet/ keys "

Adding insult to injury I would also lose my wallet / my keys and my response once again was " I keep losing my wallet / keys." That statement was the end statement; the manifesting phrase that the Universe takes literally and it would find a way of distracting me so that I could once again manifest exactly what I asked for by putting into place whatever would work with me to create that statement as fact in my life.

When I realised what I was doing, I also realised that when I had forgotten my keys, I had also remembered them. The defining statement of the situation was now " I remembered my keys. " When I found my wallet where I left it, the statement that now defined the situation became " I always know where my wallet is." I could then with the correct manifesting statement in place begin to be consciously aware of where I was putting them and work on remembering to create a consistent place to find them .

Sabotage is the undoing of what we have created or set in motion by asking . SABOTAGE IS THE unconscious WORK OF THE EGO. This undoing is done with a thought. Here’s what would happen with me. Out of the blue one day I would have the thought, " I haven’t lost my wallet / keys in a long time." Within hours, perhaps a few days but before long when the right circumstances were in place the Universe provided exactly what I asked for almost as though I were disappointed in not having lost my wallet / keys in a while. Even though I was happy I hadn’t lost anything the Universe does not see it this way. The Universe listens to the key words " lost my wallet " not what I or you think of as being a positive realisation. It requires the affirming " I always know where my wallet/my keys are " to finalise the result that you do want.

The losing part may be just a temporary loss or misplacement. I once found my phone in the fridge LOL. It’s true. It’s a good thing I like to eat or it could have been days before it was found.

In some cases, twice, I lost the wallet entirely and had to get all new identification and cards.

I am fully aware but sometimes not until after the fact of how we create the little things good or bad as well as some of the big, including my own house and an income property, all with a single thought that did not allow any sabotage thoughts in even though it could easily have been done by hearing and subconsciously and even consciously listening to someone with a negative outlook as has happened with some of my " life dreams. ”

***Keep your dreams to yourself. Too many cooks can spoil the ( is it soup or broth.) Now there I go again. cancel / clear . Yes, you can do that and the Universe does recognises cancel / clear.

The Real Kicker

I remember clearly asking the Universe how it is that I am still creating what I don’t want when I know that I can create what I do want at times, and receive it within minutes of asking by way of a clear statement of the end result.

When I first started my business and things were slow I would say something to the effect of " I wish the phone would ring." The phone would ring but it would be a " blocked " call, which I have since learned is generally not good for business. It would be a telemarketer, or anyone but someone wanting to come see me for a session. That is when I new I had to remember to be aware of my thoughts and ask specifically for someone to call with money in their wallet, keys in their hand who had made a decision to see me and wanted to see me now, and was going to show up, on time specifically and to hold that clear visual without any doubts of that happening, not even the slightest doubt.

The Real Kicker happened in January 2007. I was meeting up with a friend to see Broke Back Mountain. I ride my bike in the winter and this was a cold night. I came up to a stop light, I was hungry and running late and wanted to grab some McD’s ( cheaper than a popcorn ). There were no cars, I stopped briefly and proceeded through the intersection, while at the same time having the thought and the visual of being stopped by the police. My thought was that I would say " I have to go to the bathroom. " That was the extent of that. We Came out of the movie after mid-night, the temperatures had dropped to -20 at least. It was so cold my friend and I just said a quick goodnight and I struggled to undo my bike lock with bare hands that had frozen in seconds to the point of it being very difficult to undo the lock. I proceeded to Bloor St. where the wind-chill factor made the temperature more like –30. I passed a police vehicle. I approached a stop- light and was aware the traffic had stopped, the light was red and the opposite light was amber. This generally means the light will be turning green in a few seconds. Not in this case, as I was to find out there was and advance green for oncoming traffic. Since I had already entered the intersection and it was bitter cold I decided to proceed. A small voice in my head told me I shouldn’t and within a few seconds I could see the police vehicle pulling up beside me with lights on.

Asked if I was aware that I went through a red light. I offered in response, " the light was amber." I was then informed of the advance green and I could have caused an accident or something which is where I offered in response / defence " I have to go to the bathroom " just like I had in my " if I get caught " scenario not two hours prior to the movie. The officers response was " that’s too bad you’ll have to wait." And they did make me wait, took their time and even accused me of not having a light on the front of my bike which I did, and a light on the back and I was wearing a helmet none of which the majority of cyclists passing us while they wrote me up in their heated vehicle had any of.

I was slapped with a $180 for which I was eventually spared paying eight months later since the officer didn’t show in court. However the stress it created cost me in many ways.

So, I had created exactly what I had visualised. What I wasn’t clear about was the expected part about being let go for running a light. I just assumed my, " I have to go to the bathroom " reply would work, that it was a given that I would be pardoned for my offence and the officer would also be a gentlemen. It was not to be. I think he was training the rookie female cop who was with him and he had decided to show her how it’s done.

I don’t feel well- what you resonate with so you shall be and become.

I hope I don’t get sick - it’s the “get sick” part that the Universe hears

I haven’t been sick in a long time – almost as if you are disappointed, as though you’re missing a part of your identity.

I think I’m going deaf – you will continue to find ways of not hearing.

I can’t see without my glasses – and you never will.

I don’t want to be old – what is the picture you have painted for yourself as old.

I always forget – and you always will, unless you start to remember and there are ways to remember, to instil that.

I can never remember names – because you haven’t tried methods that work.

I don’t know how – because you haven’t tried learning or you did once and gave up.

This is a pain in the ass, the neck, the butt,- and it will manifest as such (possibly an abscess, cyst..)

Every time I …………….- because that is what you believe. Beliefs can be changed with a thought.

I never meet anybody- because you have put out that unapproachable energy and it’s working for you ( You made a statement of fact. )

It’s always so difficult to get anyone to…………take a look in the mirror and see how you yourself are difficult.

I keep losing…….

I’m getting to old to……..-

I don’t have the energy to......... 

I’m falling asleep-

Nobody ever…… ( calls me, wants to do anything, has the time.)

I don’t have any money – there is more than enough for everyone. ( Try rolling up your pennies and spend them. )

That’s going to get spilled, knocked over, broken- and it will very shortly or not too long after unless moved or the thought cancelled out.

Everything that exists was created with a thought including “walking on the moon”

It is possible to create anything you want with the power of thought and clear sustained intention.