M4M ADDICTIONS

Addictions begin as a "new found high."  Once set addictions  quickly take over.

You swear it's your last drink of the waters, your last smoke, your last taste: your last log onto an M4M site.

On comparing the same notes, someone recently said, "if your at all the curious type your fucked" 

It began as someone’s convenient introduction to themselves by way of an M4M site, having pics. and a blurb to tempt me. I embraced this incredible connection to like minded men from near and far and from all over the world.

I had heard of but never ventured into these internet connections for sex.

Tops and Bottoms and Versatile claim, to be into S&M ,BD CPT, not into fats or fems or those who smoke, nor those who define themselves as VGL, Strait Looking, Strait Acting. Not into blood or scat but WS with the right man. P&P, no cologne, you must smell like a man. Is fresh pit juice ok?

You must be a good kisser, send me a line, open to LTR. No twinks; must be defined.

He's Romantic , this ones a Total Top, and that one.....? he's in a happy committed LTR but open to something at your place he claims.

All Addictions eventually drag you down sometimes unaware.

M4m sites are like any bad relationship where the communication is poor, from non responsive to a weak thanks, you are always kept at a distance. Your going to search elsewhere, try just one more profile because your sure that steady high is really out there.

You log into and sign onto another site where your the fresh meat.

The messages come in " hey dude your hot " You think this is the one.

A late bloomer I am with this cyber stuff, thank God. I wasn't aware that men were apparently getting hooked up over the net, only that it wasn't happening in bars.

Long and short of it is they are not. There's a lot of lonely men still waiting for that special " in box message " from someone who's actually got a phone number and a real date in mind who can actually follow through.

Any M4M web connection sucks an incredible amount of energy. You may be unaware. It presents in the form of an underlying nag at your peace of mind, it consumes, makes you suspicious and untrusting like any other drug.

It's depleting. It's debilitating like any addiction, till you cut it off completely.

Don't just hide your profile ( YOU WILL COME BACK TO IT LATER ) It's like stashing your drugs, it's still there to pull out.

Dump it completely. Delete all your files. Destroy all messages of men who viewed your profile and those hot pics. you saved in a file.

If it says M4M it's ultimately a block to good healthy energy flow.

DAMMIT

I just remembered, one more profile to delete.

"Masked Men"

Don't go there. If your the least bit curious, your fucked.

M4M ? They are all Masked Men

I'm done I swear.

They are always looking for something bigger, facial hair, less vanilla, more raunchy, less aggressive, less pretentious, perhaps a cop; never taking the time to stop along the way on a go no where cyber search.

 

   WARNING : I can be addictive and have you coming back for more.

In the words of my new friend Steve, " it's a good addiction."